How I Understand Submission
I know the tendency I have deep in my heart to just “take control” of any and every situation. But part of preparing to be a wife one day is learning to let my will fall into the will of my spouse, as the two of us became one. And in order for me to unite with him, whether it be in lifestyle choices, decision making, intimacy or parenting issues, I have to learn to trust him in a way that, up until now, I have only done with God.
I have to learn to let go of my control issues by learning to take into consideration someone else’s will, desires and wants. And it is only through learning to love and submission to my future husband.